When Being Right Isn’t Enough: The Human Side of Legal Expertise

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When Being Right Isn’t Enough: The Human Side of Legal Expertise

Lawyers are trained to get the answer right. Their careers are built on expertise, precision, and the ability to identify details that others may overlook. But having the right answer does not necessarily mean that another person will hear it, understand it, or act on it.

That distinction is becoming increasingly important as clients enter legal conversations with more information and more preconceived ideas than in the past. Gina Rubel and Beth Sherman explore what happens when expertise is no longer the only thing differentiating a lawyer. As Beth puts it, “It’s not enough just to be right.” The challenge is translating expertise in a way that connects with the person receiving it.

Beth brings an unusual perspective to that challenge. A seven-time Emmy Award-winning comedy writer, veteran stand-up comedian, keynote speaker, and communication strategist, she has spent decades learning what makes an audience pay attention and what makes them disengage. Her argument is not that lawyers need to become comedians. It is that comedy offers lessons in clarity, relevance, efficiency and human behavior that can make serious communication more effective.

At the center of that approach is a simple shift: think about the audience as much as the message.

Why Isn’t Having the Right Answer Enough?

Comedy provides unusually immediate feedback. If a comedian fails to connect with an audience, the consequences become obvious quickly. Beth explains that this forces comedy writers and performers to become highly attuned to the people receiving the message. They learn to make ideas clear, relevant, and digestible because without connection, everything that follows becomes harder.

Legal communication operates in a very different environment, but the underlying human behavior is similar. A client may need an accurate legal analysis, but accuracy alone does not ensure that the client understands what the analysis means for their situation.

That is where Beth’s idea of audience-first communication comes in. Rather than concentrating exclusively on the message itself, audience-first communication asks the speaker or writer to give equal attention to the person receiving it. What does that person already know? What might be distracting them? Where might they become overwhelmed? What needs to happen before they are ready to listen?

The goal is not to dilute expertise. It is to make expertise usable.

For law firm leaders, that distinction has implications well beyond individual conversations. Dense emails, complicated explanations, and communication that assumes too much knowledge can introduce friction into client relationships and internal decision-making. If a recipient postpones reading something because it feels overwhelming, the communication has already slowed the next decision.

Beth’s approach suggests that clarity is therefore not merely stylistic. It can influence whether work moves forward.

How Does AI Change the Role of the Trusted Advisor?

The conversation becomes especially relevant when Gina and Beth turn to artificial intelligence.

Clients can now arrive at a lawyer’s office having already asked an AI tool about the issue confronting them. They may possess baseline information, assumptions about the answer, or expectations about what the lawyer is going to say. Gina notes that this dynamic applies not only to individual consumers but also to corporate clients and general counsel using AI tools before speaking with outside advisers.

Beth does not argue that AI eliminates the trusted adviser. Instead, she argues that it changes what being a trusted adviser requires.

The lawyer is no longer valuable simply because that lawyer has access to information the client cannot obtain elsewhere. The value increasingly lies in interpretation: How does this information apply to this specific situation? What nuances matter? What should the client watch for? What should happen next?

As Beth says, “We’re all in the relationship business now.”

That puts communication much closer to the center of the advisory relationship. A lawyer can have deeper expertise than an AI tool while still losing the client’s attention if that expertise is difficult to access. The opportunity is to pair substantive knowledge with something information alone cannot provide: contextual judgment delivered through a relationship in which the client feels understood.

For law firm leaders, the strategic question becomes less about whether expertise still matters—it clearly does within the conversation—and more about how the firm makes that expertise meaningful when information is increasingly easy for clients to find before they ever speak with a lawyer.

What Is the BETH Model?

To make audience-first communication easier to remember, Beth introduces the BETH model, a framework built from four principles she draws from comedy:

B — Brevity
E — Elephant
T — Truth
H — Humanity

The framework is designed to reduce the friction that can come between a message and the person receiving it.

Brevity: Make the Message Easier to Enter

Comedy prizes efficiency. Beth explains that writers remove words that are not essential to clarity because fewer words can have greater impact.

That does not mean reducing a complicated legal issue to the point that important substance disappears. It means examining whether every part of the communication helps the recipient understand what matters.

Her shorthand is deliberately memorable: “Less words better.”

For lawyers, she suggests a practical exercise. Draft the email or explanation, then look at it from the perspective of someone who did not attend law school and does not possess the same background knowledge. What can be removed without sacrificing the meaning?

Gina adds that AI tools can help with this process by shortening drafts and making them more efficient. The irony is significant: the same technology changing how clients obtain information can also help lawyers communicate their expertise more effectively.

Brevity also respects human behavior. When someone opens a dense email, Beth says, a common reaction is to decide to read it later. That delay affects the sender, too. Clearer communication makes it easier for someone to understand the issue, make a decision and determine the next step.

The principle extends beyond client counseling. Gina connects it directly to media relations: a lengthy, dense pitch creates another barrier between expertise and the person who needs to engage with it.

Why Should Leaders Acknowledge the Elephant in the Room?

The second principle is Elephant: acknowledge what everyone is already thinking.

In comedy, Beth says, acknowledging the elephant in the room removes a distraction. If an audience is preoccupied by something obvious and the speaker ignores it, that internal conversation competes with whatever the speaker is trying to say.

The same dynamic can occur in leadership.

A meeting may be happening after an unusually difficult week. Everyone may know that the group is discussing an issue for the third time. A speaker may walk into a room knowing that the audience is tired. None of those circumstances necessarily need a lengthy discussion. But pretending they do not exist can create distance.

Beth’s point is that acknowledgment can itself communicate something important: I see you. I am paying attention. I care about the experience you are having.

She describes opening an early-morning keynote after a conference gala by immediately acknowledging the obvious—that the audience had been out late. Instead of behaving as though everyone had arrived under ideal circumstances, she met them where they were.

The same approach can be far more subtle. If a team is sitting through the third meeting on the same issue, a leader can simply acknowledge it: the goal today is to avoid meetings four, five, and six.

The practical lesson is not that every elephant requires a major conversation. Sometimes it simply needs to be named.

For firm leaders, this can lower resistance before the substantive message even begins.

How Do Truth and Humanity Create Connection?

The T in Beth‘s framework stands for Truth.

Comedy often works because people recognize themselves in it. An observation lands because the audience has lived through something similar, knows someone who has or immediately understands the human experience behind it.

Beth describes truth as creating recognition—and recognition as creating connection.

That does not require an elaborate story. Sometimes a few words carry enough shared experience to create immediate understanding. Relatability comes from identifying the human element that the audience already recognizes.

That becomes particularly important when lawyers communicate across differences in expertise, experience or even culture. The question becomes: What is universal in this situation? What can the audience recognize?

Finally comes Humanity.

It is the principle underlying the entire framework. Audience-first communication means remembering that the recipient of the analysis, email, presentation or advice is a human being who must be willing and able to receive the information before anything can happen with it.

The objective is not simply understanding. The recipient ultimately needs to feel enough connection and trust to act.

That matters in a competitive legal environment as well. Beth observes that clients have many lawyers and firms from which to choose. Expertise matters, but human connection can become part of what differentiates one source of advice from another.

Small communication choices may not create deep trust instantly. But they can make interaction easier, reduce friction and create the conditions from which trust can develop.

The Takeaway for Law Firm Leaders

The episode challenges a deeply embedded assumption in professional communication: that if the substance is correct, the communication has succeeded.

Correctness remains essential. But communication succeeds only when the person receiving that expertise can understand it, connect it to their circumstances and determine what to do with it.

That distinction becomes particularly important when clients increasingly encounter information before they encounter the lawyer. The trusted adviser is not simply the person who knows something the client does not. The trusted adviser helps the client understand what matters, why it matters and how it applies.

Beth’s framework offers a practical way to approach that responsibility: use brevity to reduce friction, acknowledge the elephant that may be distracting the audience, use truth to create recognition and preserve the humanity at the center of the relationship.

The lesson is not that lawyers need to become funny.

It is that even the most sophisticated expertise still has to land with a human being.

Resources

• Beth Sherman: linkedin.com/in/beth-sherman

• College of Law Practice Management: https://www.collegeoflpm.org/
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